Thursday, March 31, 2022
EXCERPT: From the unpublished story, "Jesse the Bear" by Omoruyi Uwuigiaren
Saturday, March 26, 2022
SHORT STORY: Before it is Too Late by Omoruyi Uwuigiaren
It is expensive to raise good children.
But the price of living
with bad children is eternal.
It is expensive to
raise good children. But the price of living with bad children is eternal. Many
parents, especially in Nigeria focus attention on their children’s grades and
extracurricular activities, such as by making sure kids study, do their
homework, and if things are not going as planned, they will likely tip or bribe.
The essence of this is to get good grades and certificate. While this move can
easily secure the future, the price of not touching every aspect of the child’s
life can come back to haunt the family.
When a family is in
pain, the society bears the brunt. It’s
a vicious circle. It bites deep and robs many of happiness. The pain never ends
and will only rest when the victim walk into silence. Everyone is served the
poisoned chalice and the bread of sorrow goes round. Sometimes it comes like a
truckload. The weight of which could sink a ship.
While the parents
appear to be more concerned about the grades, in most situations, have
sleepless nights over the child’s inability to have good grades, all too often,
they forget to put time and effort into nurturing another component of child
success and development—one that is just as important, and perhaps even more
essential, which is being a good person. So the child goes through school not
even knowing there is need to be decent, selfless and kind to others. He leaves
school only to be brutally cold and receptive to good habits. This opens the
flood gate of transgression at all levels of the child’s life.
If we want to raise
children who are genuinely nice people, we can help guide them toward habits
and behaviors that promote positive character traits like kindness, generosity
and love. Without offering the same energy that we put into how much grades the
kids have at school, we have only succeeded in destroying the child. Grades and
certificates can be of immense value when there is character to sustain the
person. We can’t neglect the core values of life and expect life to be fair to
us. We cannot pretend to be good and not find ourselves chasing shadows. Life
is good when we are able to bend any circumstance to our favor.
No soul can have a
decent future on the corridors of evil. Failure to raise good children will
only dent the future. Sadly, the future is now. There must be deliberate
attempt to introduce children to good habits. While there are no guaranteed formulas
that can build good character and help any child grow into a good person, the
parent can start by living an exemplary life. Let your children see the light
in you. It is enough if they can see how loving and caring you are.
Nurture empathy in
your child. Show them the path. Be the future that you want them to be. Dictate
the lessons. Create a vivid picture of what you want your children to become. If
they can imagine it, they can achieve it. If your children are not responsive,
then you are not doing enough. Your message is not clear. You are missing
something. Fix your own shortcoming. You cannot give what you do not have. Be
the pacesetter.
Don’t assume that your
child knows how to be kind to people. Teach him or her how to reach out and
lift up people. Once your child sees the humanity in you, they will surely figure
it out on their own. As you encourage positive behaviors, you are liberating
your child from future of horror and nightmare.
Today, raising children
have almost become difficult because most parents either leave the responsibility
to strangers like the class teacher at school or they are too busy and don’t
want to get involved. Children who are not properly guided will eat junks.
Junks will leave any
child malnourished. With peer pressure, come the dangers of getting destroyed
altogether.
As children grow into
adults, kids who have not tasted proper training also develop swiftly too. They
find safe haven and mingle with their kind. What you get is a mishap. People will
drown at the feet of the bad people. Tormentors will rage at the doors of
helpless victims. At this point, we are left to grovel at the feet of the
monster that we have created.
We have created
monsters out of our children. Alas! They are upon us for destruction! The milk
can no longer flow. It has gone sour from the fountain. They crush anything in
sight and feed it to their dogs. On their bare chest is death. The valley is
flooded with blood of their brothers, sisters, friends and neighbors. The
thorns are stronger than the weaver’s beak. Hell is on top of the mountain with
hammer in her hand to crush the living. If men had seen the future, they would
have tamed the boisterous wind.
We are slowly reaching
the point where there will be a “Yahoo Boy” on every street. And every home
will boast of her black sheep. A four fisted wrecking bull that can bring down
a nation. They are cruel monsters walking about seeking whom to devour. Enough
of the madness, for the consequence is grave. They leave a trail of waste. There
is emptiness in what they share. They gloat, they howl and they destroy. The
enemy from within is hard to kill. It’s in your blood. It is part of you. Sticks
and stones can break the bone. A bad child will cause shame and rain curse on
his father. Nothing breaks a family like wayward children.
Don’t sleep while they
are awake. Once they organize into a mafia, we are finished. It is easy to see
that the boys are so rich. Money knows no filth. It’s loyal to the owner. When
money is in the hands of wrong people, misfortune will walk the street on bare
chest. It will kill and destroy.
Most “Yahoo Boys” are
now breadwinners. They pay the bills and do the things that their parents ought
to have done. In the animal kingdom, the predators determine so much. They
determine when others feed or go to the river because it is disaster for the
prey to be by the river when the predator is around. There are always
consequences for sharing the poor will the monster. The easy target will be
brought to their knees and die. The deer cannot be in the same corner with the
lion. No matter how thirsty the deer is, the poor animal must find its meal or
water elsewhere. Feeding from the proceeds of fraud is evil enough. There are
hardly free meals anywhere. Robbing
anyone of his or her hard earned money is not a good way to build your own
future. It is not a clear path to greatness. Saying this is cruel, is an
understatement. It takes only a cold hearted killer to be completely at peace
after hurting people.
Everyone is at the
mercy of the bad guy. Any poor animal that strays into their den of the
predator is devoured. We have reached that point. The power play and the speed
at which the prey is corner can only be decisive. No matter how close you are
to the prey, you dare not question the predator.
Many parents have lost
the right to question their children on how they make money. No one questions
the predators in the jungle. Some parents have been pushed to the wall. They
know it is the monster they created that is coming back to haunt them. They
know the boy is a product of their wrong decisions. They know he was their
failure. They failed to put him through. They failed to make the corrections
when they had the chance to done so. They thought the good grades and
certificates were enough to mould the son into a fine man. No! It is never
enough.
Raising children is
complex. Just as talent is never enough in the race of life so is good grades
are never enough. You can buy good grades for your son, but you can never buy
him good behavior.
The Yahoo Boys are
just one click away from being organized. Once they reach this level, it will
be hard to break them down or knock them back to reality. There is no future in
being cruel to your fellow human. Most
parents have lost the power to control their wards. Now, they expect providence
to fix the adult they should have whipped into shape when he was a child. God
will sort it out. For some, providence is the government. Sitting on the
mountain of omnipotence, like they are on top of the world, government must act
fast. The moment the bell rings, there will be no friends. The roof will be
off. Every time someone gets into trouble, the influence of the monster grows. To
them, it is good to be the bad guy. Being the bad guy comes with benefits. Bad
things don’t last, bad guys do. Such mentality should not be allowed to hold.
Hard work pays off.
Dreams come true. Being a fraudster is not a chance to taste greatness. It
doesn’t offer a good life. It only endangers those who dwell in it.
Government must save
the future of Nigeria. Now is the time to rehabilitate or move these boys off
the street. Government must create jobs and keep them busy. Failure to act now,
will spell doom. I am already scared of walking alone on the street of Lagos.
Every corner you turn is 10-15 boys drinking, smoking or chatting.
We pretend as if we don't
see these things. Every time we fail to raise a boy, we destroy a Nation.
I have always
maintained that one bad cop is worse than an entire criminal outfit. If the
average policeman knows that he has a son, brother or relative who is a “Yahoo
Boy”, what moral justification does he have to fight another? We are sitting on
a keg of gun powder. There is no pleasure in suffering. There is no hope in being
fraudulent. When we talk about future prospect, being a fraudster can never be
one of them. Making it look like a means to an end is disastrous.
It is hard to say
whether things will get better in the future. The systematic failure in Nigeria
is evil enough and it is not helping anyone. This circle never ends. It rains
for eternity. As the wandering cloud gathers at her feet, the door is slammed
shut and evil breaks forth.
Organized mafia buys
weapons. Not only to protect themselves, have they bought weapons. They have
them to retaliate or fight perceived years of injustice done to them or their
loved ones. It is insanity to belong to this world. We must act now and be
free. May we not pay dearly for raising poor children.
Omoruyi Uwuigiaren is a former cartoonist turned writer. When he was a kid, he loved music and composed songs for his high school band. After school, he wanted to pursue a career in music. Instead he embraced writing and studied Mass Communications. His literary works and books have appeared in Moronic Ox Literary and Cultural Journal, Open Books, Urban Express Live, Qwenu, Academy of the Heart and Mind and many more. He’s the owner of Ruyi’s World of Books and Stories.
EXCERPT: Dark Magical Papyrus. An Ancient Egyptian Thriller by Mounia Lakehal Meribout
Thebes, Egypt. 2022 B.C. Standing
on the balcony at dawn, Neith was looking at the rare white clouds floating in
the sky. Sirius, the sacred star, was shining bright on the horizon; it was the
first month of the season of the inundation, first decan, the first day. From
the big propriety, Neith was able to see the beautiful winding Nile which was
expected to flood soon.
Neith was a nineteen-year-old
housemaid living and working at a Nomarch Menes domain. Devoted and possessing
a good temper, everybody at Menes’ house liked to deal with the young Neith.
Her position of the lady Nomarch’s first maid required full-time attention and
a great sense of anticipation, and Neith was perfectly succeeding at fulfilling
her tasks. Work was something important to Neith, and being at the service of
Menes’ wife, Satamon, provided her with a lot of it. The young maid was
responsible for her meals, her baths, and every single thing the mistress might
need.
The morning was quiet. Some
craftsmen were walking quickly to regain the cliff located in western Thebes,
the place that Mentuhotep chose to edify his future mortuary temple.
“Work, this is all that
matters… Life without work is unbear- able,” she thought.
King Mentuhotep the second
was at his thirty-ninth year of reign, as the ruler of Upper Egypt, he
succeeded at making the nation prosper and Thebes’ inhabitants were growing in
number.
The first day of the year had
always been a festive day in Egypt. So as usual, a party was supposed to be
thrown tonight at Menes’ house. But the night before was New Year’s Eve and it
was particularly odd and scary for Neith.
“How could I work on the
party’s preparations after such a night?” she thought. Indeed, Neith witnessed
some strange facts that troubled her extremely.
“I need to speak to Ahmes
about it… Even though, I can’t imagine him finding a sensible explanation.”
Ahmes was a priest’s disciple
living in the temple of Montou, and because of his special skills and sharpened
intelligence, he was occasionally Menes’ healer. Neith met him a few days after
she was assigned to Satamon’s service and since then, from time to time, they
would have spiritual conversations and those were very agreeable moments for
the young maid. “Mistress Satamon will wake up soon, I must hurry.”
Neith put some order in her
long and braided hair.
The lady Nomarch wandered a
little while in the reception room located on the ground floor then she decided
to visit her husband’s workplace, “Of course, I need you to accompany me,
Neith.”
Menes’s office was located on
the left side of the propriety. The two women had to walk a few minutes to
reach it, but this wasn’t a great inconvenience, as the walkway and the gardens
were absolutely beautiful.
When the women arrived at the
office, Nomarch Menes was dictating a message destined to the king of Thebes
while the young scribe was copying it in a small sheet of papyrus.
“My dear, you work too much lately. You should
rest sometime,” Satamon said with a fake tenderness that only Neith noticed.
“My beloved, there are
political and military matters that cannot be delayed. You know very well that
King Mentuhotep needs to be Pharaoh,” Menes replied with a serious tone.
“It seems like he’s
completely relying on you. Other complica- tions I suppose.”
“Of course there are, fifteen
years of complications!” her husband shouted.
“Don’t tell me we are losing
the war!”
“There are still some
Nomarchs of Lower Egypt that are not fond of the idea of Thebes being their
capital.”
“The war is over, that’s what
you told me last month, and we even feasted to celebrate the event!” Satamon
complained.
Menes tried to reassure his
wife, “Don’t lose your temper, my dear. It is a matter of time and patience. It
is just a delay. Those things take time, but we will succeed soon.”
Satamon didn’t reply, her
husband’s speech didn’t convince her at all. She kept watching him dictating
his missive with certain contempt in the look.
Menes was a middle-aged man
with an average height and mild obesity. Like most Egyptian notables, he wore
heavy makeup and huge wigs.
“Definitely not handsome,”
Neith thought with a little shame.
Then, feeling that Satamon
was determined to stay for a while at her husband’s office, Neith offered her a
comfortable stool. Satamon sat down and continued to watch her husband work.
At some point, Menes spoke to
his wife, “My dearest, haven’t you a banquet to prepare for tonight?”
In fact, Menes didn’t want to
get his spouse involved in political matters. He was one of those men who think
that a woman cannot keep a secret.
“Indeed, my beloved, I have
already planned everything,” Satamon reassured him.
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